Whether you want to do a Full Monty-esque routine or a sensual lapdance, the most important thing is to have fun with it. If she was in the mood to find someone and I wasn't then I would get pissed that she was "doing this on her own". This is the first time it went this far, but now we're both a little embarrassed that probably everyone that was there is assuming that they did something in our bedroom (well they did, but they probably assume even more than what happened). Along the way, I started filming myself with various people and decided to take my swinging/exhibitionist/kinky lifestyle and make it full time. If he says he is into it talk to him about it when you're done in that post coital bliss time and then see how he feels.

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Once you’ve established what jealousy looks like or doesn’t look like for you as a couple, you can move on to thinking about swinging more seriously.

I told her about bigger men, since she really had no idea, and said she could try another man, since I had 13 to 15 sex partners before we were married and she had none. No longer do I want my wife’s pusssy, I just want cocks to suck and more spunk to savour in my mouth. Potential sex aside for a second, the kind of intimacy you describe among men is indeed so barely visible that it often arouses suspicions that something is amiss—in this particular case, deception. That way you and your partner can look to your heart’s content around consenting adults while they get their freak on. Thanks for all the advice, us talking it out and Both deciding it was a no-fault situation and never to put ourselves in this scene again has helped.

Remember that this particular method of exploration will almost certainly not lead to him being infected with anything or able to apply for a spot on 16 and Pregnant. To try it: If your desire is an encounter that focuses more heavily on sensuality, tell your partner you'd like to take things slower than usual the next time you have sex. Regardless, the indifference you detect is not that big of a deal, and I hope you can find a way to chalk up to it being a product of the other guys’ issues, not a reflection of your worth.