The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)

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The present politically correct version of a man as a weak, apologetic smart-ass who’s all too aware of his ‘toxic masculinity’ is a load of garbage which is seriously destructive to men It is dark the masculine force; if you disown it, you are kinking its hose and. thus, you weaken your masculine capacity to face the unknown while still being able to love your woman.

David Deida must have the biggest balls in contemporary spirituality." --Vijay Rana, Watkins Mind Body SpiritThere’s more in the world that’s feminine than just women; nature, beer, music—anything beautiful, energetic, moving, and relaxing embodies the feminine essence. Even now, you’re floating in an ocean of feminine energy. It’s life in all forms; the breath in your lungs, the beating of your heart in your chest, the breeze in the trees, and the vibrancy of nature. The book also repeatedly makes the point that women are in a constant state of testing their men. As if it is the woman’s role in the relationship to be indecisive, emotional, and petulant. This continues to drive home established stereotypes; Men are not emotional, and men who are must have a more feminine energy. This doesn’t help move our conversation forward when we are trying to teach boys to be their whole selves, strong enough to try but also courageous enough to ask for help, calm enough to control their temper but also open enough to express their fear, sadness, and joy. We weren’t allowed to see him outside the practice space, which meant his assistant would assemble us, then we would sit quietly while she brought him in. After a few hours of practices, lessons and Q&A, he would exit while we sat and waited to be dismissed. When we do — when we finally let go of who other people think we should be, we can be free to thrive in a way that is uniquely ours — and we won’t be so attached to what someone else thinks is superior.

You’ve now explored your masculine core. In this section, you’ll explore the feminine mindset, learn to understand the meaning behind your woman’s words and complaints, and discover how to share your masculine gifts with her. Treat Woman and World as You Wish Them to Be A macho man’s way of dealing with his woman is “My way or the high way.” Mr. Nice Guy’s way is the way of compromise or even self-negation: “OK, your way.” But a Superior Man’s way is the way of inspiring his woman to tread the path that most serves her growth in love and happiness. Finally, there’s the reawakening of the ancient notion of male initiation – the idea that a male doesn’t simply become a man because he turns 21. In a culture that’s desperate to tell men that they’re ‘fine as they are’ and that they just need to talk about their emotions like women, many men are realising they’re not fine, that talking about feelings is ensnaring them in a world anxiety and that by going on a mission of facing fear, meeting the inner shadow, taking responsibility, not complaining and embodying traditional masculine virtues such as stoicism, courage and strength their lives are improving; as women – and other men – start to respect them and they start to find meaning free of egocentric identification and an instant gratification culture.Some of these are The Enlightened Sex Manual, Blue Truth, Finding God Through Sex, and the autobiographical novel Wild Nights. That said, I’ve benefitted massively from the red pill worldview, and think all men should familiarise themselves with the common concepts, yet I think the red pill is so powerful right now because of the culture blue pilling a generation, if things were more balanced then the red pill wouldn’t be nearly as meaningful, yet the power of men’s work and the superior man approach would remain the same. It’s about getting honest about how massive an effect homophobia has on our lives and actually doing something about it.